We've named this introductory bondage position for obvious reasons, with a new twist. This is real restraint, much more intense than a simple wrist tie, and yet very easy to implement. Especially for new bdsm pleasure seekers, it's a comfortable, familiar and non-threatening way to explore sexy bondage in the bedroom. One simple restraint delivers lots of pleasure potential, yet can easily be released if needs be. Your restrained submissive can see and touch you, and because it's so easy to release, she feels safe. Have fun, make it playful, and you'll both be very surprised that such simple bondage could be so effective and entertaining. And especially with your lovely submissive bound in this position, hot lingerie adds visual and tactile excitement. We recommend dressing for sex.
To create this bondage position. you need only one long restraint. We recommend 6 feet of soft bondage rope, although depending on your partner's size, a 4-foot silk tying sash might work, or maybe the belt from a robe. Start by laying the rope or sash centered across the bed, so that when your willing submissive lays down, the rope is under the small of her back. Now tie one end of the rope around one of her wrists, go to the other side of the bed, and pull on the restraint until you've drawn her wrist tight against her (other) side.
Now wrap the restraint end around her near wrist, bringing her arm as close to her body as possible when you tie the restraint, and you're done. Because she's lying over the restraint, your submissive's own weight keeps her bound for pleasure, arms tight against her sides. Very Very Missionary.
For a simple, very hot variation, start with a 10' or longer of rope. Now, after you've tied both of her wrists, there's enough rope left over to bring it back across her hips, pull it tight, and tie it around the first wrist. She'll feel that rope pressing against her every time she moves, and when you're on top, her wrists are held in nearly immobile bondage.
And if you’re both enjoying yourselves, and want more, add ankle bondage. With your eager submissive's legs tied together, teasing, flogging and spanking are almost unbearably exciting. With her legs tied apart, she's helpless, arms tight at her sides, open and vulnerable to you, and very hot. Starting from Very Very Missionary, lots of other exciting variations are possible, including the classic spreadeagle pose; read more: SPREADEAGLE SURRENDER