BONDAGEWEAR
No doubt, lingerie is the most popular sex toy of all; the success of Victoria’s Secret attests to that. When you add bondage, that already-hot outfit becomes positively scorching. Your eager submissive, bound in lingerie, can’t prevent the parting or removal of her last lacy protection, and being so vulnerable will boost the thrill level; she'll look ravishing the whole time, too. A woman wearing a black garter belt or corset, with stockings and high heels, is the stuff of many a bondage fantasy. Seeing your lovely submissive helplessly bound in black rope and lingerie is a sight to behold.
Ever since the "Fifty Shades' phenomenon, lingerie designers have created bdsm-themed styles featuring straps, buckles, and matching wrist cuffs all ready for bondage sex; we call these outfits and sets BONDAGEWEAR. They're perfect to wear for a gentle introduction to bdsm, in coordinated style. The cuffs are usually connected by ribbon ties or small chain, and simply slip over your eager submissive's wrists with a light and non-threatening fit, especially good for wary first-timers, yet with enough real restraint to experience the thrills of bondage sex. Some outfits even include paddles, blindfolds, or collars, for more exciting play...right away! More and more bondagewear lingerie is being made plus-size, too, so everyone gets to play. Lingerie and bondage belong together.
Now let’s talk about crotchless and open-bust lingerie. There usually comes a time when some or all lingerie comes off, to make way for further adventures; but what happens if your submissive's legs are tied wide apart, and she's still wearing panties? They can’t slide down or come off, and pulling them aside barely works, so scissors might be required...! Or what if her arms are tied outstretched, so you can't take down the shoulder straps of her outfit to expose her breasts? Crotchless panties and open-bust lingerie are the solution. Your lovely sub continues to look great because nothing ever has to come off, and you've still got access to her tender parts, no matter how she's bound. Crotchless pantyhose are modern lingerie miracles; Bianca says they're designed to make peeing easier for women, but I think they're hot sextoys.
A few other thoughts and recommendations about lingerie and bondage:
-
consider wearing panties that aren’t crotchless outside gartered lingerie and stockings
-
panties make great, quick ankle restraints - take them to her ankles, twist, and hold on
-
velcro cuffs can easily get very stuck on fishnet lingerie - be careful
-
inexpensive outfits allow you to focus more on the fun - if the lingerie gets torn off, so what?
We routinely dress certain ways for the beach, or the club, or for sports, right? Dressing for bondage sex is just like that, only better, because this is incredibly hot sex we're talking about...! Sometimes just a pair of stockings adds levels of pleasure, and other times, full dress is required; whichever, the lingerie - and your eager, delicious submissive - always looks hotter with cuffs and rope.